<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:taxo="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/taxonomy/" xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">
  <title>CancerFriends.org's topics - tribe.net</title>
  <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/threads/atom" />
  <subtitle>Tribe.net. Local Connections</subtitle>
  <entry>
    <title>Vitamin C Therapy</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/b0acd64c-5c95-4f41-b9c9-f9a48808f519" />
    <author>
      <name>kaliom</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/b0acd64c-5c95-4f41-b9c9-f9a48808f519</id>
    <updated>2007-07-13T08:31:01Z</updated>
    <published>2007-07-13T08:31:01Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Just a question...
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Has anyone here or anyone you know tried the Vitamin C Therapy for Cancer??
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Any feedback or opinion on experience on this?&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>kaliom</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2007-07-13T08:31:01Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>final update</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/a963bd3c-c71a-4c98-949e-eb7e020a7883" />
    <author>
      <name>HarleyQuinn</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/a963bd3c-c71a-4c98-949e-eb7e020a7883</id>
    <updated>2007-07-11T18:32:17Z</updated>
    <published>2007-06-28T22:17:27Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;he beat the cancer
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;but died on 5/10/2007 along with our 6yr old daughter in an auto accident.he had a seizure while driving and merged into oncoming traffic at 65 mph (both ways) 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;www.joemojica.com&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 1 reply
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>HarleyQuinn</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2007-06-28T22:17:27Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>New To this Group</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/d9515e01-226b-4604-a5cc-a52962e24c91" />
    <author>
      <name>Muirenn</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/d9515e01-226b-4604-a5cc-a52962e24c91</id>
    <updated>2007-06-22T22:28:29Z</updated>
    <published>2006-10-28T03:30:06Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;My father has Lung Cancer - asbestosis. This week the Doctor said that it has spread in his bones further, the lump in his lung is growing and it has spread nodular. They want to begin new chemo but it's stronger and they aren't sure if his body will accept it. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I want to be there for them but they live so far away. Its breaking my heart immensely. I can only cry. As bad as I feel for my father, I am more worried about my mother, who is alone in another state with no family near at all, attending to her third cancer death. (first her step-father, then her mother and now her husband). She is so strong, but so afraid and alone. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;M&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 2 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>Muirenn</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2006-10-28T03:30:06Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Alternative treatments?LIVING AND DYING TOO!</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/269e16b9-9710-4fbc-bd63-ff95f68b57d3" />
    <author>
      <name>lightwitch</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/269e16b9-9710-4fbc-bd63-ff95f68b57d3</id>
    <updated>2007-06-22T22:26:27Z</updated>
    <published>2004-05-15T00:06:40Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;HI All, diagnosed last Aug w/ 4th stage meta breast cancer, no organ involvement but in bones and lymph. Been on Chemo since, adramycin and taxol, RESPONDING WELL.Soon will end this group of sessions.. At first I couldn't even walk from pain in hip joints(tumor), now I am up and walking, driving. Live in San Juan Batista CA, love SCruz.. I am a Natural perfumer, study Kabbalah, love plants and flowers, design clothes in my mind, Theatre major in UCI , BA , gardens , cats, all wild things, Sag/scorp rising, aq moon, venus/nep conjunc in Libra.Used to teach, fundraise for NARAL (prochoice America)STILL, WANT TO KNOW ALL ANYONE KNOWS ABOUT ALTERNATIVE TREATMENTS, HERBS, HANDS ON, DIET, ETC.I have been using mycomedicinal(mushroom) capsules from Paul Stamets, Host Defense by name. I believe I can win this battle.. anybody else outthere who wants to share the journey? SISTER, COME VISIT,OR LETS JUST CHAT SOME IDEAS ONLINE, HELP ME WITH MY GARDEN, BEADS AND FABRIC DESIGNS, HELP ME MAKE MY DREAM OF A greaterWOMENS GARDEN, FORUM FOR iNTERNATIONAL pROGRESSIVE POLITICS FOR WOMEN, THEIR ARTS, BOOKS AND VISIONS A REALITY. I HAVE AN IDEA FOR A GRANT AND FOUNDATION , BUT NEED AT LEAST ONE LIKE MINDED VISIONARY, WITH SENSE OF HUMOR. i AM GOOD AT BRINGING IN THE MONEY FOR OTHERS(NOT MYSELF, BUT SURE WOULD LIKE A HOME) AND SHARING THE WORK, i HATE WASTE, jUST LET ME KNOW ABOUT YOURSELF,NOTHING IS MORE HEALING THAN DOING WHAT YOU KNOW IS RIGHT AND LEAVING SOMETHING GOOD FOR EVERYONE WHEN YOUR TIME COMES!(aNE WE ALL GO EVENTUALLY)i ALREADY HAVE A FABULOUS CHEMO TURBAN HAT DESIGN THAT NEEDS TO BE PRODUCED FOR OTHERS O US SO THEY CAN FEEL BEAUTIFUL WHILE ENDURING THE TREATMENTS. wHAT WE NEED IS EACH OTHER, NOT A BUNCH OF HUGE ORGANIZATIONS . oUR LIVES ARE PRECIOUS TO US AND WE HAVE LOTS MORE TO SHARE, AND SOMETIMES NEED A HAND WHEN PAIN GETS US, AND DEPRESSION SETS IN.. SERENDIPITY hAPPENS!hOW ABOUT SPAS FOR CANCER PATIENTS, RETREATS, STARRY NIGHTS AND FIRES, SOME OF US ARE KINDA LOW ON CASH YOU KNOW, BUT WE HAVE HUGE SOULS, AND OUR BODIES ARE FIGHTING A HUGE WAY TOO PREVALENT DISEASE, THAT MEDICINE HAS YET TO DEFEAT.. LETS GIVE IT A GOOD BATTLE AND FIND OTHER WAYS! i AWAIT YOUR REPLY WITH GREAT HOPE!tELL ME ABOUT WHAT YOU LOVE, WHAT COLORS MAKE YOU SMILE, FLOWERS, MUSIC, YOUR WISH , DREAM i LISTEN WITH MY HEART! lOVE AND lIGHT ZENEPHRA&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 6 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>lightwitch</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2004-05-15T00:06:40Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Looking for a spouses/partners of cancer survivors group</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/eb55de17-1a20-4100-a560-4dab3ad142cf" />
    <author>
      <name>Alazka</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/eb55de17-1a20-4100-a560-4dab3ad142cf</id>
    <updated>2006-06-18T08:58:28Z</updated>
    <published>2006-06-18T08:58:28Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;...anyone got any leads? Or do you think a seperate tribe should be spawned for those who do not actually have cancer, but whose lives now revolve around it?
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;And if anyone had any tips re: support groups, especially in the DC area, that'd be awesome too.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;cheers,
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;azk&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>Alazka</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2006-06-18T08:58:28Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Colon Cancer and Chemotherapy</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/3f093f9e-99ed-452e-b66f-cb33c77d5f92" />
    <author>
      <name>jeau</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/3f093f9e-99ed-452e-b66f-cb33c77d5f92</id>
    <updated>2006-05-15T17:51:27Z</updated>
    <published>2006-04-11T19:17:54Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Hey there--I'm new to this tribe, glad to find ya!  My mom had a right colectomy last Thursday and was discharged yesterday.  Last night her doctor called to tell her that she's T3, N1, Stage 3 (cancer spread to one lymph node).  She will begin chemotherapy soon.  Does anyone know how long she should recover from her surgery before beginning chemo?  I'm trying to arrange my flights so that I can be here (NH) as much as needed, but also go home (AZ) when not.  Southwest has a great deal on flights until the day BEFORE we go meet with her doctor again, so I'd sorta like to find this out ASAP.  Anyone with experience?  Thanks!&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 8 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>jeau</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2006-04-11T19:17:54Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Cervical Cancer</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/8df88835-bb81-45d8-b10f-0b2f35728cd1" />
    <author>
      <name />
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/8df88835-bb81-45d8-b10f-0b2f35728cd1</id>
    <updated>2006-05-15T17:41:41Z</updated>
    <published>2006-05-10T01:02:09Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Hi every body. I just joined this tribe. It was found in January this year during a regular pap that I have cervical cancer. All the doctor's have moved very quickly on this as I am only at stage 1. Surgery is not an option as it is too radical for the size of my cancer and the doctor has prescribed radiation theraphy which I started yesterday. There will be a back up of a low dose of Chemo also which will start later this week. It's been one hell of a ride, the anger, the fear, the anxiety, the "oh my God" of it all. I am glad I found this group, seems like all of you are very supportive and kind. I hope through all of this I will be able to give back support. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Laura &lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 3 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator />
    <dc:date>2006-05-10T01:02:09Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>The Wellness Community - support &amp;amp; education</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/bdb85e7a-9998-46c8-93c7-866d8434b029" />
    <author>
      <name>sentient1</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/bdb85e7a-9998-46c8-93c7-866d8434b029</id>
    <updated>2006-05-04T18:41:28Z</updated>
    <published>2006-05-04T18:41:28Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I've heard good things about this organization - The Wellness Community. http://www.thewellnesscommunity.org/virtual_wc/tvwc_main.htm
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;They are a national non-profit organization withon-line and walk-in locations that provide support services.   Anyone ever use them&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>sentient1</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2006-05-04T18:41:28Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>New update</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/50f6a7b8-0f12-4621-8bb3-a37f86a6477b" />
    <author>
      <name>HarleyQuinn</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/50f6a7b8-0f12-4621-8bb3-a37f86a6477b</id>
    <updated>2006-03-18T08:11:27Z</updated>
    <published>2006-02-08T12:53:32Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Hubby got done with the chemo and radiation for the esophagus. they did the blood work scan and something came back. they did a body scan and found small, less than 3cm masses on his lower left lung.  They are talking surgery, and in the mean time, he will be doing more chemo and radiation 2-3x a week for 6 months.  he had his first round yesterday and was throwing up all day and night. this time its hitting him alot harder. I'm having surgery on friday and dont know how to help him. I also have to work (not after surgery of course) and get the kids off to school. our van died last night, think its the battery, but dont know. its all too much some times. &lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 1 reply
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>HarleyQuinn</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2006-02-08T12:53:32Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Hello All, Yea Me too.....</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/84686837-4164-422b-b4bb-57cf53054d06" />
    <author>
      <name>Tube_Amp</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/84686837-4164-422b-b4bb-57cf53054d06</id>
    <updated>2006-01-03T19:14:19Z</updated>
    <published>2005-12-15T05:25:31Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;In September I was diagnosed with stage 3 Colon Cancer in my Sigmoid Colon. Well They cut out 15 inches of my colon 3 days later. After two weeks I developed a massive infection and had to stay in the hospital to get IV anti biotics.  It's now 3 months later and I'm just starting to get my head above water. I was unemployed at the time, but fortunately a veteran. I was able to get the VA to take me in and perform all of the tests and surgery. I still can't do half of what I could before physically, but I can drive again now that I'm off of the pain medication.  Being limited to lifting 8 Lbs. does make shopping and living stressfull.  Any more like me out there? I'd love to talk.    &lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 4 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>Tube_Amp</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-12-15T05:25:31Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>My husband started treatment today</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/c5a6897e-b5a4-4b99-ac44-3be8361c6479" />
    <author>
      <name>HarleyQuinn</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/c5a6897e-b5a4-4b99-ac44-3be8361c6479</id>
    <updated>2005-12-21T01:38:41Z</updated>
    <published>2005-12-05T16:42:17Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;At 10:00am he started a combo of radiation and chemo therapy. after 1 year with this disease, they say 3 rounds should kick it out. he had drasticly changed his died, upping his vitamin C and the doc said with his bloodwork, if they werent looking for it they would never know he even has cancer. they took out 17 tumors from his esophagus 1 year ago, had another endoscopy a week ago, and we're looking for March 28th for him to be CANCER FREE! 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;he is not home yet from treatment, doc said he could drive himself home, and he didnt want me there with him. i will keep everyone updated as to how he is doing. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;FUCK CANCER!!!&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 10 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>HarleyQuinn</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-12-05T16:42:17Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Shameless Plug.</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/3bdb2a16-2702-45bf-b70f-3617e1d696b6" />
    <author>
      <name>HarleyQuinn</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/3bdb2a16-2702-45bf-b70f-3617e1d696b6</id>
    <updated>2005-12-15T05:29:39Z</updated>
    <published>2005-12-15T05:29:39Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;I apologize if it offends anyone..
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;My DEAR friend Cliff created a CD to help us pay for hubby's many mounting hospital bills. Its AWESOME sounding and its for a good cause. 
&lt;br/&gt;2. a DIFFERENT Dear friend created a T-Shirt. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;let me know what you think!
&lt;br/&gt;CD: http://www.monkamedia.com/
&lt;br/&gt;Shirt: http://killing-joke.com/new_message/index.php?showtopic=1541
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;as we say around here: FUCK CANCER!&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>HarleyQuinn</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-12-15T05:29:39Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>alternative treatments for colon cancer</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/706614f1-979c-4038-978d-217a77ccdecd" />
    <author>
      <name>kapke</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/706614f1-979c-4038-978d-217a77ccdecd</id>
    <updated>2005-10-20T21:23:21Z</updated>
    <published>2005-09-13T06:31:27Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;I've recently been diagnosed with a synchronous colon cancer. The doctors want to cut out my colon and I can't see myself doing that. I'm looking for any leads on alternative ways of treating colon cancer. All suggestions appreciated.&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 4 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>kapke</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-09-13T06:31:27Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Healthcare System in America</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/419dd86d-edf9-4c66-b393-0f073c9bbbbd" />
    <author>
      <name>Jules_0f_f8</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/419dd86d-edf9-4c66-b393-0f073c9bbbbd</id>
    <updated>2005-09-03T19:53:34Z</updated>
    <published>2005-08-26T05:02:31Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Is there anyone still out there in this Tribe?
&lt;br/&gt;If so, I would like to get your opinion on your experience of the American Healthcare "System." Specifically with regards to cancer treatment and the HMO experience.&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 2 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>Jules_0f_f8</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-08-26T05:02:31Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>?Nirvana?</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/b2787911-ac0f-4680-9869-aa5cc7dc38f9" />
    <author>
      <name>Jules_0f_f8</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/b2787911-ac0f-4680-9869-aa5cc7dc38f9</id>
    <updated>2005-08-22T19:45:57Z</updated>
    <published>2005-08-22T19:45:57Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Both the true meaning and the band.
&lt;br/&gt;My father was diagnosed with prostate cancer years ago. As the concerned son, i constantly asked for updates. He would mostly tell me he was o.k. and every now and then he would say he hurt a little more, but not to worry. ("Not to worry." "Not to Worry." I only type it more so it may stick in my head). 
&lt;br/&gt;About 4 weeks ago I had called my father to see how he was doing. This time he said he was in pain. *slowly typing**trying not to cry**first time really telling story* He went on to say that his cancer had spread. He was to go in for check ups in a couple of days, but he remained optimistic.
&lt;br/&gt;I called my father the day after his next appointment. *waited a day due to time zone change* He said, "they got it." He said he felt great....and of course.....not to worry. I took him at his word.
&lt;br/&gt;One week ago yesterday. I get that call. Not the one of fatality. No that one would have almost been better. I get the call that says that my father is now terminal. The cancer now spread to his bones and brain.
&lt;br/&gt;I hang up on the caller, drop the phone and cry. Only momentarily, I have not brought myself to that level yet. I am still trying to remain strong. 
&lt;br/&gt;I then plan to make an emergency trip from Italy to visit with my father at perhaps his weakest state. British Air is on strike! All airlines booked for 3 days! I have nothing to do for three days but question every bad thing, or anything that I could make sound bad, that has ever happened between my father and I. Why did I move to Italy? Why didn't I take over the family business? Why did I not go to the last family reunion? WHY? WHY? WHY?
&lt;br/&gt;During these three days all I could think of in the back of my head was Kirt Kobane's words, "I want to eat your cancer with a spoon." What did he mean by that? Who cares? My father is dying. I mean, I knew it before. I knew and know that there is no cure. But fuck! When you hear from a doctor that your last parent *yes! last**lost mother to cancer as well* has about one year to live, what do you do? 
&lt;br/&gt;I am with him now. Only mementarily. I must go back to work soon. My recent days have been filled with transiting back and forth to the hosiptal from local family members' houses. Sound shitty? In between visiting my father, I am trying to figure out which nursing home to put him in, what to do with his belongings *can't think about what he wants me keep at this point* , etc. etc. 
&lt;br/&gt;The worst part of all. He thinks he can go back to work at the end of the week. How do you look you father in the eye and shatter his dreams of working again? How do you tell his father that he will probably never see his home again? All the things your father never did to you while growing up (shut down your dreams). And now you are faced with the reality.
&lt;br/&gt;Anyone? Anyone? 
&lt;br/&gt;well i am done with my tangent for now. time to spend more time with my father. god, it felt good to vent. thank you all (anyone who will listen).
&lt;br/&gt;I am sure there is more to follow.&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>Jules_0f_f8</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-08-22T19:45:57Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Peter Jennings</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/b724c986-f3b3-47da-a271-4869cb0e7d49" />
    <author>
      <name>HarleyQuinn</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/b724c986-f3b3-47da-a271-4869cb0e7d49</id>
    <updated>2005-08-08T04:00:49Z</updated>
    <published>2005-08-08T04:00:49Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;has died tonight. 4 months after being diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer. 
&lt;br/&gt;r.i.p Peter :(&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>HarleyQuinn</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-08-08T04:00:49Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>from my husband</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/ea84a864-6993-44b6-b54d-b6a0d2d8af3e" />
    <author>
      <name>HarleyQuinn</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/ea84a864-6993-44b6-b54d-b6a0d2d8af3e</id>
    <updated>2005-08-06T20:18:51Z</updated>
    <published>2005-08-05T22:18:33Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;This is from my husband's blog. words cannot express how scared we BOTH are...
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Well, after talking to the doctors, and getting some results back, then talking to the family, I have decided to try and opt for certain treatments to actually try and live a bit longer.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Be there no mistake, that without getting any treatment, I more than likely will not see the age of 35. Treatment does not guarantee making past that point, but the odds become a little more realistic for actually having a chance.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Right now, they are saying I am still at Stage 2 Squamous Cell Carcinoma of the Esophagus. I am still staged at 1 on Adenocarcinoma of the esophagus, and tumors have been seen in chest CT, as well as some symptoms, but need a biopsy to tell exactly what type. The esophageal cancers have not been elevated because I have not had another endoscopy, which I have needed since March. They are leaning towards thinking Non-small cell lung carcinoma (NSCLC), which would then elevate the staging of the esophageal cancer. They also want to perform a biopsy on my lymph nodes to see if my lymphatic system has been affected.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Right now, all those tests need to be done, so we can see exactly where I am at. As the nurse said, playing if I dont know it cant hurt me, in this case, will wind up in the worst possible way. While I understand that doctors are sometimes greedy, I think in this case I need to have treatment to have any shot at life. I can feel it inside. Every day.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;So, the case of what I need done in order.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;1. Endoscopy to perform removal of nodules and tumors, and possibly dilate and repair the esophageal sphincter. Begin pain management.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;2. Begin preoperative chemotherapy (CTx) and combination radiochemotherapy (RTx/CTx)for the squamous cell esophageal carcinoma and adenocarcinoma. This is a very aggressive treatment done because it increases the resection rate, the rate of complete tumor resection, and survival time. The side effects, though, are suppose to be brutal. After that, they will then check with another endoscopy to see where we are. If needed or deemed to be helpful, then we have surgery. I am not sure how many weeks or rounds worth of treatment I would be under. That would be discussed with the oncologist.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;3. Possible preoperative chemotherapy for lung. Again, I am not sure about the details of this, other than it helps shrink the size and stunt the growth of the tumor, and makes surgery much more successful.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;4. Surgical removal of tumors in the lung that would or may still be present after chemo rounds.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;5. Assessment and further treatment as needed.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I have just emailed my dad and mom to see if there is any way to get a loan so I can get things started, and will exhaust everything to try and get going beginning of next week.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Guys, I am horribly scared, along with feeling absolutely horrible right now. I am very tired, and run down. Not something I would normally admit, but I cant turn my head and try to pretend it doesnt affect me any more. I dont want to be put in a box....I am not ready to go anywhere. Not yet, dammit..not yet.&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 1 reply
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>HarleyQuinn</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-08-05T22:18:33Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>complimentary therapies</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/2a8ae2a1-6235-4eb2-9814-d19b4e52c236" />
    <author>
      <name>starburst</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/2a8ae2a1-6235-4eb2-9814-d19b4e52c236</id>
    <updated>2005-07-09T19:34:43Z</updated>
    <published>2005-07-09T19:34:43Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;A very dear friend of mine was recently diagnosed with Hodgkins Lymphoma.  She is still undergoing tests to see how far along it is.  The good news is this is a very treatable disease.  She will be starting chemo soon and I am trying to find some alternative/complimentary resources to support her journey.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Nutrition advise:  Is it better to cleanse or build before chemo?  She will most likely be going in once a week for three months.  Any foods to add or subtract from the diet before or during chemo?  Does the pre treatment diet affect how a person handles chemo?  
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Acupuncture:  Who (practitioners or patients) out there have worked using acupuncture as an adjunct to cancer treatments.  We are looking for someone in Santa Rosa, Sebastopol, Windsor (CA) area.  A bonus would be someone who take Medical OR could offer a discounted rate.  Obviously this whole process is going to be a financial strain.  How often are treatments recommended? 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Herbs:  Does anyone have any knowledge of the efficacy or dangers of using milk thistle during chemo?  Any other herbs to add or stay away from?
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Other:  Any other words of wisdom or ideas that may support the process.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Thanks for your attention, consideration, wisdom and generosity. &lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>starburst</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-07-09T19:34:43Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Breast Cancer Survivors Needed</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/1c66f2d7-4ed7-448c-86dc-1f489497e5f7" />
    <author>
      <name>tatdude</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/1c66f2d7-4ed7-448c-86dc-1f489497e5f7</id>
    <updated>2005-07-07T00:32:01Z</updated>
    <published>2005-07-07T00:32:01Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Hello everyone, this is France the Founder of the Healing Art Foundation, we need Breast Cancer Survivors who may be interested in Getting a Tattoo as a Unique option to recovery. Healing Art Foundation provides tattoos, permanent make-up, areolia repigmentation, cover ups and a support system all for Breast Cancer Survivors, done by Tattoo Artists. We are Awareness, Prevention and Survival. This unique option for both Men and Women. If you are interested please check out http://www.healingartt.com . Special request for any Breast Cancer Survivor located in Miami, FL contact me ASAP.
&lt;br/&gt;Thanks,
&lt;br/&gt;France&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>tatdude</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-07-07T00:32:01Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Great links...</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/018e43c7-7ea2-4b70-b28a-e0d290562edc" />
    <author>
      <name>kizzy</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/018e43c7-7ea2-4b70-b28a-e0d290562edc</id>
    <updated>2005-06-14T01:44:46Z</updated>
    <published>2005-06-13T19:19:27Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;New to this tribe and wanted to share my favorite links!
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;My sister in law has a great Flickr group called Too Sexy For My Hair!
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;People share intimate photos and stories about their (or loved ones) experience...check it out here:
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;http://flickr.com/groups/27763725@N00/
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;It's really easy to join and upload pictures and has been a healing and touching group to be a part of.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Also check out her blog at: http://toosexyformyhair.com/
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;and my brother's great new site: http://www.cancer-news-watch.com/
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Thanks,
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Kizzy&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 2 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>kizzy</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-06-13T19:19:27Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>I'm loosing her</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/e15225dc-06fd-463e-97c4-2e3bc6451111" />
    <author>
      <name>BobM</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/e15225dc-06fd-463e-97c4-2e3bc6451111</id>
    <updated>2005-04-29T17:52:20Z</updated>
    <published>2005-04-20T07:41:53Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;I hate cancer!!!!!!!!! I hate it with all my heart and my very soul!!!!!!!! Cancer you bastard give me back my mother!!!!!!!
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I'm really sorry I just needed to vent. God I hate this feeling!&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 5 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>BobM</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-04-20T07:41:53Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Promising Breast Cancer Drug..</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/6f537f20-0e71-4aca-ac15-cb5cb6aa93f0" />
    <author>
      <name>chillinnyc</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/6f537f20-0e71-4aca-ac15-cb5cb6aa93f0</id>
    <updated>2005-02-20T02:11:14Z</updated>
    <published>2005-01-11T06:30:25Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;There is a new drug, Abraxane, approved yesterday for treating metastatic breast cancer.  It is less toxic and has a better response rate.   Following is the link to info:
&lt;br/&gt; 
&lt;br/&gt;http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/medicalnews.php?newsid=18716 
&lt;br/&gt;  
&lt;br/&gt;We are going to suggest that to our oncologist on Thursday...&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 1 reply
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>chillinnyc</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2005-01-11T06:30:25Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>words of wisdom</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/7c6e7603-93a3-4c83-ad12-e18ee5109147" />
    <author>
      <name>flowernightmare</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/7c6e7603-93a3-4c83-ad12-e18ee5109147</id>
    <updated>2004-12-03T21:02:13Z</updated>
    <published>2004-12-03T21:02:13Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;this poem came in an email newsletter for cancer survivors and though i don't usually go for the inspirational or sentimental, i was struck by it and wanted to share.
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;What Cancer Cannot Do
&lt;br/&gt;Author: Unknown
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Cancer is so limited
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot cripple love 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot shatter hope 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot corrode faith 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot eat away peace 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot destroy confidence 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot kill friendship 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot shut out memories 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot silence courage 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot invade the soul 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot reduce eternal life 
&lt;br/&gt;It cannot quench the spirit&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>flowernightmare</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2004-12-03T21:02:13Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>not sure if i belong here</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/49654d11-a252-4e40-9616-fd73d95fd712" />
    <author>
      <name>HarleyQuinn</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/49654d11-a252-4e40-9616-fd73d95fd712</id>
    <updated>2004-11-12T15:16:32Z</updated>
    <published>2004-11-10T16:54:12Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;my husband has been diagnosed with so much stuff, its hard to keep up. the dr. said he has esophigial and gastric cencer cells, but they arent replicating.. yet... were just awaiting the flip of the switch so to speak. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;does anyone have any experience or knowledge of these types of cancer?
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I am so scared. he is only 32 years old. I am only 24. I am not ready to be a widow and a single mum&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 1 reply
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>HarleyQuinn</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2004-11-10T16:54:12Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>radiation irritation</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/3bffc246-20bb-4345-ab91-a42c74a70f68" />
    <author>
      <name />
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/3bffc246-20bb-4345-ab91-a42c74a70f68</id>
    <updated>2004-08-07T20:50:41Z</updated>
    <published>2004-08-07T20:50:41Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;my mom is in her last two weeks of radiation tx and she is having a hard time with the skin irritation...anybody have any suggestions for what she could use or do to help with that while still getting the treatments as well as after the treatments end.  she has been using what the doc recommended, but it doesn't seem to be helping much.  she has never been a complainer, so i think it must be pretty irritated.  it's really red too.  thanks for anything you may offer.&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator />
    <dc:date>2004-08-07T20:50:41Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>New Scientific Info.</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/ca94681c-49fd-420a-a268-1c2d2a74cb4e" />
    <author>
      <name>Lisa</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/ca94681c-49fd-420a-a268-1c2d2a74cb4e</id>
    <updated>2004-08-01T13:49:20Z</updated>
    <published>2004-08-01T04:03:43Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Cloning Experiment Shows Cancer Reversible - Report
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Sat Jul 31, 5:01 PM ET  Add Health - Reuters to My Yahoo! 
&lt;br/&gt; 
&lt;br/&gt;By Maggie Fox, Health and Science Correspondent 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;WASHINGTON (Reuters) - A cloning experiment may show that the body itself has the ability to reverse cancer, U.S.-based researchers said on Saturday. 
&lt;br/&gt; 
&lt;br/&gt;They cloned mouse embryos from a melanoma skin cancer cell, and created healthy adult mice using some of the cloned cancer cells, showing that malignancy is not the inevitable fate of a cancer cell. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;"This settles a principal biological question," said Dr. Rudolf Jaenisch of the Whitehead Institute at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (news - web sites), one of the country's leading experts in cloning. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;He said while the genetic elements of cancer cannot be reversed, the epigenetics -- how the genes are actually turned on and off -- can be. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;The finding, published in the journal Genes and Development, point to a new way to treat cancer, said Lynda Chin of the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute and Harvard Medical School (news - web sites), who worked on the study. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;"Drugs that target the cancer epigenome may prove to be a key therapeutic opportunity for diverse cancers," she said in a statement. In other words, it might be possible to silence a cancer gene. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Cancer begins when certain genes mutate, or when a certain, inherited version of a gene somehow gets turned on. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;This can happen through various so-called epigenetic processes -- when other molecules in a cell affect genes without actually altering the sequence of DNA. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;In the experiment, Konrad Hochedlinger and Robert Blelloch, both researchers in Jaenisch's lab, took the nucleus from a melanoma cell and injected it into a hollowed-out mouse egg cell. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;This started the egg growing as if it had been fertilized by sperm. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;They did not allow this embryonic mouse to develop, but harvested from it embryonic stem cells -- immature cells that have the potential to become any cell in the body at all. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;They put these stem cells into healthy mouse blastocysts -- very early embryos only a few days old. Some of these developed into healthy, normal mice. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;"It's important to note that the stem cells from the cloned melanoma were incorporated into most, if not all, tissues of adult mice, showing that they can develop into normal, healthy cells," Blelloch said. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;They included skin pigmentation cells, immune cells and connective tissue. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;This could only have happened if the cancer cells had lost their malignant qualities, at least temporarily, the researchers said. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;But when certain cancer-related genes in these mice were activated, they developed malignant tumors at a much faster rate than normal mice, the researchers added. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Many researchers want to try similar experiments with human cancer cells, but the administration of President Bush (news - web sites) forbids the use of federal funds for such study because it would involve the creation of what is technically a human embryo. &lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 2 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2004-08-01T04:03:43Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Hello-new and need to talk</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/39138dec-8200-498c-8a32-fb6c7bdc7992" />
    <author>
      <name>lisajgehl</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/39138dec-8200-498c-8a32-fb6c7bdc7992</id>
    <updated>2004-07-08T17:55:58Z</updated>
    <published>2004-07-08T17:55:58Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Hi everyone,
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I don’t have cancer but I feel like it rules my life and I’m terrified of it. I feel like I’m a hypochondriac about it, especially my breasts. Maybe I should share some history here. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;My mom died of cancer when she was 43, I was only 10 at the time and it’s an experience I’ll never forget, it was the day after my birthday and I knew she was sick but just didn’t grasp that she was going to die, it was shocking and it was so hard for many years after. My dad was like a strong tree, always there for me and he still is. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;My grandma (my mom’s mom) had breast cancer in her 70’s and she got through it. She died of other causes in her 80’s. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I’m 27, I have a husband and we want to start a family really soon. I am plagued with the thought of having a child before I’m 30 because I hear it’s a risk in regards to cancer to have children after than time. It feels like a superstition the way I hear it and I don’t know how you really gauge something like that. I still want to have children soon, it’s not that I feel like I’m rushing solely because of this, I feel ready for it. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I go to the gynecologist every year and get a pap smear and breast check. I already talked with the doctor last year about my family history of breast cancer and said that definitely this coming up check she suggests getting a ultrasound rather than a mammogram because I’m young and my breasts are more dense. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;So this appointment will take place around October/November and since about late May I’ve just been feeling like a hypochondriac, always feeling my breasts and worrying about lumpiness that has always been there are just areas that are sensitive. I know the time to check every month but I don’t react like I would with a pain in my arm that will go away, I just feel like it’s worse with my breasts. I work at a job that requires a lot of physical work and bumping around things so if I do feel something I think it’s something as a result of that, or is it not? What if there is something there?
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I see sites about cancer survivors and the radiation and treatments and hear medical stories of new medicines to help those with cancer. I don’t read too much into them mostly because of denial. I hear about lumps but not much else for symptoms. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Can anyone direct me to a good place or offer some advice?
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;Bringing up this subject scares me and makes me sad and my husband is fully aware of it and he feels the same. I don’t want to freak him out over something that is most likely nothing, although I feel like I’m going to burst. I have been distracted and stressed about this off and on. Some days I feel that I shouldn’t worry, I have my upcoming appointment. But, other days I feel like I’m being stupid and should do something now if I’m worrying in general. My husband and I are not rolling in money (we are doing ok with paying bills) and have awful insurance at the moment, we’ve been planning on getting some good insurance by the end of the year so we can get ready to start having kids. 
&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;I’m sorry I feel like I’m babbling but I felt I had to get this off my chest somehow and share with someone how I feel. I don’t want to die young and I feel helpless. &lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 0 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>lisajgehl</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2004-07-08T17:55:58Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>New to all of this</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/ab35c6c9-de3e-42c6-ba4d-ee29d1126be0" />
    <author>
      <name />
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/ab35c6c9-de3e-42c6-ba4d-ee29d1126be0</id>
    <updated>2004-06-09T23:45:53Z</updated>
    <published>2004-05-24T20:54:23Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;Hi, I am new to this group, as well as new to cancer...my mom was just diagnosed with breast cancer last week.  This week she will meet with the specialist and surgeon to talk about what they want to do about it.  They have already told her that it is a fast spreading type and that maybe the best action would be to take the breast rather than just the lump.  My mom is my touchstone...we are not just mother and daughter, we are best friends.  She had a stroke last year and now this.  I am not sure how I can help her get thru it, especially if i feel like breaking down myself...any advice?&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 3 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator />
    <dc:date>2004-05-24T20:54:23Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Question</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/5f00911e-e67a-440c-a3b0-5525c1f63a82" />
    <author>
      <name>Pixiestyx</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/5f00911e-e67a-440c-a3b0-5525c1f63a82</id>
    <updated>2004-05-23T07:00:24Z</updated>
    <published>2004-02-29T06:11:17Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;So how many of you have either survived cancer or know some one who has??&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 20 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>Pixiestyx</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2004-02-29T06:11:17Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>help!</title>
    <link rel="alternate" href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/4257d518-ac3f-4448-8578-f8d03d5a63d5" />
    <author>
      <name>highballj72</name>
    </author>
    <id>http://cancerfriends.tribe.net/thread/4257d518-ac3f-4448-8578-f8d03d5a63d5</id>
    <updated>2004-05-02T05:06:22Z</updated>
    <published>2004-04-29T17:21:46Z</published>
    <summary type="html">&lt;div&gt;i am currently trying to raise funds for a bone marrow transplant for a family member who is in dire need. she has health insurance, unfortunatlly it is tapped out. she has three sons, the youngest an eight year old, and is an outstanding community member. any suggestions on how to raise money or past experiences would be great. also non profit or assistance league organizations you know of personally would rock. thanks so much for you ideas and time&lt;/div&gt;
				&lt;div&gt;
			posted in
			&lt;a href="http://cancerfriends.tribe.net"&gt;CancerFriends.org&lt;/a&gt;
			- 3 replies
		&lt;/div&gt;</summary>
    <dc:creator>highballj72</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2004-04-29T17:21:46Z</dc:date>
  </entry>
</feed>



